"Since People Don't Easily Change, It's Up To Us To Make Changes "… In How We Look For Lasting Love

For anyone wanting to find lasting love but repeatedly making bad choices, help is at hand! Relationship expert Kevin Darné’s latest book, My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany), helps readers understand the importance of knowing, loving and trusting themselves so they will have more realistic expectations and make better choices. After all, there are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in a relationship – we either get what we want or accept what we have. While Darné offers advice for both paths in his book, he adds: “It’s your life – take the wheel!”

Once describing himself as a ‘serial dater,’ Darné is obviously no stranger to the dating scene. He is a Chicago Dating Advice Examiner for Examiner.com and president & CEO of a company that helps people facilitate change from within. Through hilarious anecdotes in his book, Kevin helps us recognize what we’re doing wrong; to stop listening to our heart and start listening with our head!

In My Cat Won’t Bark, Darné dispels myths and outdated beliefs and shares many of his own relationship blunders that readers will undoubtedly relate to. “The first step is to determine who you are, what you want, and what you need in a mate before you seek out a partner,” says Kevin. “It is important we take stock of ourselves so that we keep things in perspective. Opposites may attract in the short run but it’s like that attracts like in the long run.” Adding, “Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart.”

Darné’s informative website LoveAlert911 reflects a career devoted to fostering self-empowerment in the complex world of dating, romance and marital relationships. He is president and CEO of Conation Enterprises, a company that helps people facilitate change from within. Author, businessman, and Dating Advice Examiner, Kevin also contributes articles and blogs to Hubpages and Yahoo Shine.