This is a 7-day CHALLENGE to spice up your relationship and to initiate the transformation of your marital intimacy by Christina Bollacker

You can DO IT! It is only 7 days.

Day 1-Monday, February 08, 2010
• Day: Put away those frumpy, lumpy sweats and take down that greasy ponytail. Put effort and thought into your look. Many husbands are around professionally-dressed, lipsticked, and perfumed women all day long. They then come home to their wife who has had no shower, no make-up, and is in the same clothes since he left–which are now carrot covered with a stretched out butt. … Put a bra on and a form-fitting top; slip into those tight jeans he loves to see you wear.

• Night: Initiate Sex … I know, you say you don’t know how … that’s OK. Get “Sexy Gal’s Guide to Romance … Creating Lingerie at Home in Minutes” and create lingerie piece titled, Chapter One.  It’s as simple as taking 3 minutes to make the Lingerie piece, then walking out of the closet with it on–he’ll take it from there. I promise.|

Day 2- Tuesday, February 09, 2010
• Day: Compliment your husband on the way he looks, e.g., his outfit, his muscles, his cologne, his hair, his constant breathing (if that’s the only positive).
• Night: Initiate Sex.

Day 3- Wednesday, February 10, 2010
• Day: Cut 4-5 palm-sized hearts out of RED construction paper. Write love notes to him and leave them for him to find throughout the day (on his mirror, in his shoes, in the car; in his brief case, lunchbox, gym bag, etc). At the very LEAST, tell him that you love him, give three reasons why you respect him and list the one thing he does for you that you appreciate the most.
• Night: Initiate Sex.

Day 4- Thursday, February 11, 2010
• Day: Send 2 “adult” text messages to your husband while he’s at work, one at 10 AM and the other at 3 PM. The following are mere suggestions; get detailed, get silly. Text # 1: “You should nap during lunch today, you’ll need the energy tonight when I ROMP you—Happy early V-Day.” Text # 2: “O, I wish it was 5, I can’t wait much longer.  Hurry and get your SMOKIN hot body on mine.”
• Night: Initiate Sex.

Day 5- Friday, February 12, 2010
• Day: Touch your husband in his inappropriate place at an inappropriate place (at least twice: in the morning before work and in the evening right after he gets home). Be unpredictable, e.g., at dinner under the table (with your toes), while he’s showering with shampoo in his eyes, passing in the hallway with an arm full, or while he’s shaving. Remind him that there will be more tonight and that you’ll be thinking of him ALL day.
• Night: Initiate Sex.

Day 6- Saturday, February 13, 2010
• Day: Flirt more. Show him the “twins” secretly at an unexpected time during the morning routine (make sure no other eyes are watching, especially small ones).  Tell him he has to wait until tonight. Be exciting and a tease … just a tease, don’t give the goods away just yet … he’ll long for you all day. You must make good on the tease in the PM or he’ll lose trust.
• Night: Initiate Sex.

Day 7- Sunday, February 14, 2010-Valentine’s Day!
• Day: Double-Duty Day. Wake him 20 minutes early with a gentle, but firm massage. … That’s right; get his Love Lasso excited for a “Quickie” before he starts the day. Nothing says “Happy Valentine’s Day” like great morning sex.
• Night: Initiate Sex.

You have taken a huge step to improving your intimacy; you should be proud!

Christina Bollacker is a wife and stay-at-home mom of four children—all under five years old. She knows that finding the energy and desire for intimate time with the hubby can be difficult, so she creates sexy lingerie to spice things up.

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