In a long term relationship and feeling celebratory as the holiday season approaches? But are you discovering that while the notion of intimacy is top of mind, you have lost that loving feeling, even though you are happily together with your long term partner? You are not alone. Close to half of all women complain of similar concerns. What can you do to ignite new sparks and have the sexiest holiday season ever?

More than anything else this holiday season, your dream is to have a more satisfying relationship with your partner, but the passion seems to have dwindled. Worse yet, while the holiday spirit is high, the dark, dank days may be more of a match for your dulled desire. Why? Underlying causes may be prescription medcations including oral contraceptives, anti depressants, anti hypertension meds, and others, all unknowingly undermining your sexual desire, arousal and satisfaction, and real chance of holiday pleasure.

Avoidance of getting closer may be caused by new feeling of sexual discomfort due to vaginal dryness, interfering with intimacy and satisfaction.

Holiday rush and everyday stress may make sleep a luxury. And, being overtired can undercut the romance in any relationship. Time to make your bedroom a haven for restful slumber by removing any and all electronic distractions. Create an ambiance, and help restore divine connection and sexual pleasure in your relationship.

Fall in love with him all over again. Use the season to be more attentive. Hold his hand..and whisper in his ear. Put holiday shopping on hold and plan a getaway intimacy weekend. to a romantic but festive location. Doing something new, different and unexpected may help increase those “feel good” brain chemicals (dopamine,norepinephrine, and oxytocin) and make you feel more romantically interested.

Give yourself a “romance to the rescue” gift to heat up holidays under the sheets…for an all new you for holidays into the new year.

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This article is excerpted from the Holiday Gift Guide for 2011. Be sure and check it out and read other articles about the holidays. It’s also great to add to your online shopping experience!

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